Are you afraid that your man is going to cheat on you or maybe even leave you one day? I am sure you have seen so many tips on how to keep your man that it has made your head spin. The fact is, so many of these tips are just useless garbage that are meant to fill up space. They are all just common sense either made up to sell magazines or bring you to a web site. Well I think it is time to let you in on the dirty hidden truth about men. They are not complicated and their needs can be easily dealt with. So I am going to give you three tips that are meant to keep your man in check and make him want and long for you every moment of the day. How would that make you feel, I would assume it would put your mind at ease. Just to know that all the while he is at work or hanging with his buds his mind is on you. In fact after reading this article and implementing my advice your man will be running home to you, I guarantee that in fact. So no fluff, no garbage, just the cold hard truth.
Maybe your relationship has stood the test of time, but now you worry that he may be getting bored. Or you have a brand new relationship and you don’t want that spark to die. Whatever the reason is, you came here today looking for ways to keep your man not only interested but addicted as well. Read these three tips with an open mind and watch him beg to be around you and want you all the time!
Fulfill His Fantasies
Every man has some type of sexual fantasy that he has just been dying to try since he was a teenager and had his first erection. Maybe he wants a threesome, or try bondage or just make love with you in chocolate pudding. If you want your man to worship you give in to his desires. If nothing else at least listen to his sexual fantasies and consider trying them out at least once. However, if you try them you are going to see a brand new man in bed! My thoughts are as long as they are legal and not dangerous, just go ahead and try them out. Don’t hate the messenger here but if you love your guy, you should be willing to do anything for him in bed. And with that I do mean anything and everything.
You want your man to appreciate you, right? Well this is the first step in making sure that he does. A man that sees his woman appealing to his sexual desires and fantasies is going to appreciate her. Men want their women to be submissive and they want them to be sexually devoted to them. If you can show your man this type of feelings he is going to adore you. OK, so maybe this is not the information you wanted, or it is going against everything you have ever learned or heard. If you want your man to be sexually addicted to you, this is important to men.
You came here looking for the truth and this is just the plain hard truth. If you are sexually submissive to your man, even if that is not you, you are going to keep your man interested in you. Of course, you don’t always have to be in the submissive role, but do learn to play it often. And yes, there are going to be fantasies that don’t turn you on or you just may not even like. It is going to be up to you whether you try them, my advice is to give it a shot at least once. You are showing him you are interested and that is just the start of him wanting you more. You need to be ready to try some new things here and giving in to his desires in bed is one of them.
The first step to this is just lying down and finding out about his fantasies. Find out what his all time fantasy is, what is the one thing he has always wanted to do. Also look for some of those hidden fantasies that might be easier to pull off. You don’t want to give him the greatest fantasy too quick, start small and work up. The more of these fantasies you can pull off the better and more passionate you sex will become, trust me on that. Before long you will be having some of the most unbelievable sex of your lives.
Once you have fulfilled even just one of his fantasies you are going to be number one on his list. He is going to remember you as the woman who gave him something no other woman did. So you have surpassed every other woman in his life thus far, and you are now the “alpha” woman in his life and memory.
Change Your Look and Attitude
You need to take a look at your appearance and attitude. How do you dress around your man. Are you in sweats and a t- viking detroit tigers hoodie all day long. Is your hair up in a pony tail and no make-up? Trust me, I understand, we can’t alway be looking sexy all the time, but you need to try. If you want your relationship to work and get him sexually addicted this is just a step. And once he sees you making the extra effort I bet you will see him start to change his style as well. So if you don’t have any go buy yourself some revealing clothes and surprise him when he comes home from work. Or better yet, get some very sexy lingerie and be waiting for him at the door. Just try to make the effort to dress a little sexier for him.
Also keep in mind that sexiness is just as much about attitude as it is about looks. So make sure you are kissing, biting and touching him every chance that you get. Be open about your sexuality, don’t feel as though you have to hide it. I can assure you he will notice it and you will get a reaction out of him. A great way to make yourself feel sexy is by using an alluring perfume or even body lotion. There are some excellent ones on the market try them out and see what gets the biggest reaction from you r man. As an added bonus, men love the soft silky feel of a womans skin from the lotion. And that scent will linger with them at work and drive them crazy!. So by the time they get home they will not be able to wait to be with you.
Here is another truth, if you think you can handle it. You think men really want the girl next door? Sure they do, but they also want the girl is is downright dirty and kinky in bed. So you have to find a way to play the devil and angel at home. Men want to have the porn stars they watch on TV in bed with them. SO make yourself that porn star and watch what it does to your man.
Are you beginning to think that men are more shallow than you could have ever imagined? Well it is going to get worse, you have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? The stomach is just the rest area, if you want to get to the heart you need to go through the penis. Sorry ladies, but the penis is till the nerve center of the male body. If the penis is happy, every other body part is happy. So take that tidbit and use it to your advantage the best you can.
Giving The Best Oral Sex
When was the last time you really cared about how good your oral sex was to your man. Have you ever asked him how good it was or do you even give him oral sex. So many women don’t care how good they perform or if they even give it. All men love oral sex and there are a lot who prefer it over regular sexual intercourse. So if you are able to give a man an incredible oral sensation, you have him in your back pocket so to speak. So give more of an interest in performing the best oral sex on him and he will appreciate you over the other woman who just didn’t care one way or another.
You want your man to be addicted to you, right? Well using oral is the number one way to get there and stay there. You will see that oral sex is an art form filled with many techniques. If you learn just a handful you can keep your man satisfied and hooked on your mouth. So sit down tonight and look into a few different techniques and learn them. Become his porn star for the night.
I hate saying it but so many relationships and marriages have failed just because of bad or non-existent oral sex. Something so simple that could have changed a relationship, so take a look into it.
Now let me give you one last bonus tip so to speak. When you are with your man tonight and you undress him, look at his penis like it is the first and biggest one you have ever seen. Handle it with great care and just be overly amazed with it. I know it sounds crazy and you may feel a little foolish doing it, but men love it. They want to have their penises admired, don’t believe me? Why do you think so many men put pictures of just that part online. They want the admiration of women and to some degree men. Anyway just try it and I can almost guarantee he will have the hardest erection you have seen.
write by STEVE BROWN